Blowjob Tips - Blowjob Do's & Don'ts
How do you give the perfect blowjob ? For one it's a party, while the other doesn't like it or is very worried about it. "Am I doing it right?" Does he like it?" A lot of questions that can haunt your head, so you can't enjoy it. And it's just so important to enjoy it together.
Especially people who don't have much experience often find it exciting or are unsure about their arts. It's never really right or wrong, as long as you don't hurt his private parts.
First some basic knowledge
First of all, it might be helpful to better understand your man's anatomy . Every piece of his penis needs a little different attention.
The glans , the tip of the penis, is the most sensitive part of the penis for most men. With uncircumcised he is often even more sensitive, so you may have to be a little softer for these acorns. Go for gentle stimulation with slow stroking movements with your tongue. Suck gently and not like a vacuum cleaner.
Other very sensitive areas of the penis are the corona and the froth . The corona is the crown of the glans and is the rounded protruding rim that forms at the base of the glans. The corona is therefore the part that separates the shaft and the glans. This area is where different types of nerve endings come together making this a very erogenous zone of their penis and very responsive to stimulation.
The tuft, or frenulum , is located on the underside of the penis and is the part that connects the foreskin to the glans. This piece is similar to the fringe that attaches your lip to the jaw. This part is also full of nerve endings and is an erogenous zone. And did you know that your man can even come by massaging this sensitive spot?
Don't forget about the forgotten child: the balls ! These are often neglected during oral sex and this while many men can enjoy this very much. Be careful with them though. Go for gentle movements, caresses, sucks and licks and see what his reaction is.
Finally, we have the part between the end of the testicles and the anus, the perineum . Many men find this a very pleasant place to be caressed and licked. Just let him know you're going that way before he freaks out and thinks you're going to do something different and he doesn't like it.
Good. Now that we know what the sensitive spots are on the penis, it's time for our best tips for a good blowjob
Do's
Communicate with your partner
Every person likes something different, so it's best to just ask what they like. Chances are he finds this super exciting too. It may feel awkward at first, but communication is really key!
Build it up slowly
Make a show of it. Start at the top and slowly work your way down. Tease him a little and give him time to get excited too. Move from kissing to his neck, lick his nipples and slowly move down his belly. Tease him by not going straight to your target and kissing his thighs and groin first and giving teasing licks. By the time you get to the real thing, you'll know for sure that he's hard and excited. Don't go deepthroating like crazy, but start slowly just for the jerk. Then pick up the pace.
Experiment and watch his reaction
Do you find it exciting to ask what he likes? Then just try out some different things and just see what kind of reaction it elicits. Try to alternate between faster and slower movements. Now and then play with the head by using your tongue and occasionally take the penis a little deeper into your mouth, or just focus on the tip for a while. If you notice that he responds well to something, try to focus on this technique and repeat it.
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