Do's:

• Let your partner know that you want to try role-playing, talk to him about it and ask for feedback. If your partner doesn't like the idea, find common ground to start with.
  
  
• Make a plan of what you are going to play. If it's a specific scenario or scene from a movie, watch the scene together or discuss the basics of the plan.
  
  
• Take your partner's wants and needs into account. If they don't seem interested, back off or make a new plan. The idea is for both partners to have an enjoyable experience.
  
  
• Collect all the necessary attributes and costumes in advance. If you need something to make the roleplay more immersive, make sure you have all that stuff ahead of time.
  
  
• Learn to talk dirty. Role-playing is often more about what you say than how you act.
  
  
• Think in advance about what excites you in your head. Think of any scenario that excites you, write it down and discuss it with your partner.
  
  
• Start with a simple scenario. For many people, role-playing can feel a little strange. You may feel uncomfortable doing it. Start small and slow. If you are comfortable, take it to the next level.
  
  
• First, try sexting your partner about your fantasy. This way you can incite each other in advance or discuss fantasies that you do not yet dare to say face to face.
  
  
• Make sure you have an exit plan. Discuss things like safe words and endpoints during the planning phase. If you start a roleplay and find it uncomfortable, you can end the scenario immediately.
  
  
• Improvise. Once you've had some practice, try deviating from the original plan and creating the story as you go, seeing where it takes you.

Don'ts:

• Don't force something if your partner doesn't feel comfortable. It's hard for some people to enjoy role-playing if the subject is something that makes them uncomfortable.
  
  
• Don't role play involving someone you or your partner knows personally. If your partner asks to role-play and you want him to play his brother's role, you probably won't get along well.
  
  
• Don't take your role-playing too seriously. This should be a fun, easy experience; if you take it too seriously, things can go wrong quickly. It's much more fun if it becomes something you can laugh about later.
  
  
• Don't ignore your or your partner's feelings. One doesn't feel good about it. Then think of something that you both feel comfortable with or express it if it is not for you.
  
  
• Don't put too much pressure on yourself. It's not an audition. It's about having fun together and adding some spice to your sex life. Don't worry about your acting - concentrate more on your lovemaking.
  
  
• Don't forget to have fun. Don't get caught up in the preparation and theatrics – the goal is to feel excited and enjoy yourself, not to win an award for best acting.
  
  
• Don't forget to use a safe word. Whatever game you play, it's always a good idea to have a safe word, one that can act as an emergency button that stops the game when it gets too intense or is no longer fun. Seriously, if your partner gives you a safe word, stop immediately. This applies to both parties.
  

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